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Value yourself..

  • Writer: A Gade
    A Gade
  • Nov 29, 2025
  • 3 min read

My Dear Child,

There is a truth I want you to carry for the rest of your lives — no matter where you are born, no matter how simple or ordinary your beginnings may seem, you hold the power to shape your own destiny. Your starting point does not decide your finishing line. It is your courage, your choices, your character, and your commitment that carve the path ahead.


Let me share with you a few thoughts that I hope will guide you through life.


Your Value Is Not Decided by Your Birthplace, but by Your Mindset

A seed planted in rocky soil can still grow into a mighty tree if it reaches for the sun. The world has seen countless examples:

Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, born to a simple boatman’s family, became the Missile Man and the beloved President of India.

Oprah Winfrey, who grew up in poverty, became one of the most influential women in the world.

Narayanan Krishnan, a five-star chef who chose to serve the homeless, showed that greatness comes from the heart, not from privilege.


Each of them began with nothing, yet created lives that inspired millions. How? They decided that their circumstances would not control their future.



Build Yourself Every Day —

Like a Sculptor Carves a Statue

Imagine a sculptor working on a block of stone. Every day he removes a small chip, a little piece of roughness. Slowly, a beautiful idol emerges.

Your life works the same way.

Every good habit you build, every mistake you correct, every skill you learn — these are the strokes that shape your future.

Spend time reading; books open doors that seem invisible.

Learn new skills; each skill adds a “tool” to your life’s toolbox.

Speak kindly; kindness builds strong relationships.

Work diligently; hard work sharpens your character.


Greatness is not a sudden miracle — it is a daily discipline.



Turn Challenges Into Stepping Stones


Life will not always be gentle with you.

There will be failures, disappointments, and difficult days.

But remember this: a kite always rises against the wind, not with it.

When things go wrong:

Don’t blame others; search for the lesson.

Don’t fear failure; it is simply a teacher in disguise.

Don’t let temporary pain blind you to your long-term purpose.

Every challenge you overcome increases your value, like gold purified in fire.


Surround Yourself With Goodness

The people around you shape your thinking.

If you walk with positive, hardworking, honest people, you will become like them. If you choose friends who pull you backward, even the strongest wings will fail.

Remember: Your circle can be your power or your prison.

Choose wisely.


Keep Your Feet on the Ground and Your Dreams in the Sky

Let ambition guide you, but let humility protect you.

You may achieve wealth, fame, or success — but never forget your roots. Respect people, regardless of their status. Speak politely. Stay grateful. These qualities make a person truly valuable.


Give Back More Than You Take

A life lived only for oneself is a small life.

Your true greatness appears when you uplift others — with your time, your kindness, your knowledge, or your service.

A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.



My Dear Child,


You carry within you the strength of mountains and the gentleness of rivers. Your journey may begin in a small corner of the world, but your dreams can reach the stars.

I want you to remember one thing above all:

You are not limited by the conditions you were born into.

You are elevated by the choices you make each day.

Walk confidently. Learn constantly. Work sincerely.

Be honest, be brave, and be compassionate.

And wherever life takes you, know that my blessings are always with you.


With endless love,

Your Father

 
 
 

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